Sparkles

I've been reminded by the ever present noise in my head this morning of a song from Top Gun.  You've  Lost that Lovin Feeling.......that song has been stuck in my head since a stupid dream I had last night woke me up.  I couldn't shut my mind off after that.   It's reminded me of losing the sparkle and twinkle in your eyes.  I've experienced this with my own children, with their lost loves, and a divorce with one of my boys.  They lost that sparkle and twinkle and it took a long time for it to come back.   Now I am seeing it seriously appear in one F's eyes.  Really noticed it yesterday with a picture he posted.  No sparkle.  No twinkle.............hate it.  Just hate it.  I hate seeing anyone sad or unhappy.  It does make me wonder if what they had was so real.............why not fight for it...........I think I remember hearing one F say to Em.........."what I am about to say, are not just empty words".  Seems to me that he meant what he said.  I know there are two sides to every story, but this story is one that is so incredible, so powerful, that the ending is far from over.  If one F or Em for that matter, ever venture outside of their comfort zone, I hope that they find the sparkle and twinkle that they are so missing right now.  We need  and I need to see the shine come back into their eyes.