It's always good to get away. Some people call it a vacation. I don't have vacations. I have rejuve-acations........there is no better place to rejuvenate and refocus at than the ocean. Beach, ocean air, sand, and occasionally the sun peeking out from overcast skies, makes me feel alive again. I was in my element last week. I went with a purpose. My best friend lives in Cali....I went to celebrate her birthday and to celebrate us both for living another year to see ourselves advance to another level in our lives. Her health isn't the best and she's realizing that time is taking it's toll on her. Before it's too late gather the people you care about around...show them, tell them, make amends with them.....just do it before it's too late. Open your eyes, see what you are missing. Open your eyes before they close forever...............
Seeing life through your own set of eyes and sets of other peepers staring away, can be quite amusing and irritating at the same time. I got an eye full last week of the tremendous effort 1 f Jef has put into his body. He shared a pic of himself through his eyes........ Wow.............oh my, beautiful, gorgeous, and let's leave nothing to the imagination........lets leave the entire world wanting a lot more.................it may have been a selfie, but who cares. It was a great picture. Perfect example that hard work pays off. I saw the world differently looking through the eyes of his fans last week because of this one picture...............(that really needs to be blown up and made life size). 1 f Jef, if you only knew, and I do believe you do know, what you do to women of all ages, red would be the only dominate color on the color wheel. And, you, 1 f Jef, would be sporting the color all over your face......I will take to the grave the conversations of many women who are in the cougar cage of life.....you wickedly good and funny ladies...........you make my day, sharing your "this is what I'd like to do to 1 f Jef" thoughts with me. Yes, 1 f Jef, your back is covered.......and in some cases, the front as well if they could get a hold of you............
I opened my own eyes and saw again how much 1 f Jef is liked and appreciated. I have said in the past that he has a way with words. He shows me just how classy and articulate you can be when you chose the right words to convey a message, push a knife in a little deeper, or make people believe you've just been given a compliment. That takes talent..........
I know that posting something this good will only feed the lions and tigers out there. Posting a picture of a very scrumptious physique is going to cause a stampede. When the stampede is caused by someone who is close to Emily Maynard and considers herself to be her friend, her best friend, how could she not like/love 1 f Jef. They were once engaged............. But, she doesn't like 1 f Jef, probably has never liked 1 f Jef. Since she is so close to Em, did she eve meet 1 f Jef? I get a notion that she hasn't ever met him......
She saw something in the picture of 1 f Jef. She formed her opinion, good for her she can do that, but she also saw something that irritated her, bothered her, and made her lash out to the kid.........
"What a bag of tools".............must have been more from this social queen besides that line as the comments reflect something else was said in regards to his picture.
In 1 f Jefs defense.........the loyals come out and protect his back........I'm afraid she was outnumbered.....it stirs the pot when the haters, the jealous mongers throw in their 2-cents worth of stupid. The protectors of 1 f Jef, the loyal fans of 1 f Jef, sweeten the pot and make it delicious to savor and this time was no exception. The pot is full of honey again.
Your comment really shows what type of person you are. Very sad people are so hateful.
One of my favorites in favor of 1 f Jef: You must realize that there are some who lack emotional intelligence. They do not respect themselves therefore they have an inability to respect others. You're a good man that is a force for good. So let them have their comments and opinions, cause that's all they got!!
Another fan posted this: Do you know anyone with "the HIV"? No? Yeah that's what I thought! If you did, you wouldn't make such tactless comments about it.
In her defense, the nonfan of 1 f Jef, posted this: It's called a joke, just like him.... (a reference to HIV had been made, but I am not finding the whole comment in question. Deleted maybe??). I'm sure you've made a few in your day about the un PC things. How about spending a little less time judging people & praising people you don't even know & a little more time taking care of yourself....Um, doesn't this sound like she should be practicing what she is preaching at the podium? Spend a little less time judging someone she doesn't know. Sounds to me like she "knows" this fan so she can "judge" her, just like she knows 1 f Jef and can judge him, too...........There is no right or wrong answer.....only an opinion.
The kid is still bad ass: 1 f Jef's response: I don't know you, but you seem like a great person...I wish I had friends like you! Add the emoticon of a sun winking and sticking their tongue out, to the end of that quote.........love it.........he can still be nice when burying the knife a little deeper...............one thing for sure, it put a smile on my face. Atta boy, 1 f Jef. Couldn't have said it any better.
Bless the hearts of his fans, she got a mouthful of nasty spoken to her........you can't judge someone else until you have judged yourself. Practice what you preach, do unto others as you would have others do unto to you. Oh, hell...there are a lot of quotes and phrases out there. I guess being an asshole is all some people know how to be............I've certainly been an asshole a time or two......but I've been a been the shoulder for someone to cry on also. I guess she's human, can have an opinion, be an asshole, and also be someones friend. I won't fault her for that. Not sure she would fit in my friendship circle............different people, living in the same world, but seeing it differently through eyes that see and don't see.
I freely admit that I do not know 1 f Jef, have never met him. Am I judging 1 f Jef? Nope. Am I praising 1 f Jef? Nope. I'm just giving an opinion. An opinion like the one you are forming in your minds at this very moment. Nothing more, nothing less. Opinions.......that's all we have. In my opinion, 1 f Jef still rocks this world of mine as I see it and I'm glad that he's in it..........I choose to see his good side all the time............
He's not perfect as people make him out to be, he does have flaws. I have flaws, everyone has flaws. I'm sure that if given the opportunity to get to know the classless act that started all of this, I might find her interesting, maybe somewhat intelligent, and hopefully showing that she is after all a human being...............since I will never know.....I'll just wonder.........for all of 30 seconds.......
1 f Jef is back to showing he is real. It's a pleasure to see him interact with fans on Twitter, on IG............this makes him, yes I am going to say it.........human. He's not a figment of imaginations anymore. He does have a voice and can defend his own back. He's tweeting with fans. It's nice to see that side come out and play. He's been silent far too long. Keep it up, keep it going, keep your fans eager for what's ahead for you.
It's Bachelor Monday..........home town dates for 4 lucky guys. I'm still rooting for dimples, Brooks Forester. From the looks of previews for tonights epi, names tags are in order for Des to remember all the family members. Great idea............HTD is one of my favorite episodes of all the Bach/ette shows. Last years HTD between 1 f Jef and Em was filmed in southern Utah where I saw a beautiful couple, speak and I heard heartfelt words, and enjoyed a picturesque view of Utah's deserts, the playground of 1 f Jef. I'm hoping Brooks HTD with Des is shot around the Salt Lake valley......totally different terrains, but equally gorgeous, for two beautiful people to continue to fall in love.
twitter@CotySimon...........
Thank you, Coty, for keeping it real. Jef brought us all together, so there must be a reason for all this, of which, we will all know one day, I'm sure. At any rate, we are lucky to be where we are and enjoying our relationship with 1 f Jef.
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