1 f Jef, Nothing new

June is gone and July is here.  I headed for the mountains to cool off  from the horrid heat, but also to cool down the brain from being totally fried and left useless from the parasites that love to hate on 1 f Jef.  I let them get the best of me........I have a hard time dealing with people that are perfect assholes.   People who have no flaws are self righteous, know-it-alls, who spend most of their time picking on other people.   I usually don't let people crawl under my skin like that.  But they managed to last week.  I'm blaming it on the heat.

I bonded with nature, picked wildflowers. took pictures, watched birds, and listened to the rain and thunder that rolled through, and quickly forgot what I left behind.  It's all in the past now anyway.  Last week is just that...........last week.  The parasites.......last week.  The haters.......last week.  It's all last week.  Time to make a new week and new memories that mean something.   Let the haters hate.  They are sooooooooooo last week anyway........

No news is good news.............but in 1 f Jef's case, no news is not good news.  He's leaving us crawling on our hands and knees, begging to know what's going on with him, what's happening next.  All people can do right now is wait and wonder.  Rumors are still around for him being the next Bachelor participant...................rumors are still going around about a lot of crap with 1 f Jef.  Found that out last week......but that was last week.  Nothing, nada, zilch.......for this week.  The week is just starting, but you'd think something would have materialized over the weekend. (although, late breaking news after I wrote this blog......A Bachelor Viewing Party in LA on August 5th, hosted by People Water?????????? Hmmm)........

He is quiet.  Maybe that is a good thing.   Maybe he is trying to undo somethings that were being sewn up too tight.  Doing some alterations of his life............his life in the media circles is pretty public.  It will always be that way.  He may collect some dust from time to time, but there will be someone watching over him to dust him off.............. and let the world know he's still around.  What was once normal is no longer for 1 f Jef.   I think he's learning that and dealing with it in his own way.

Things happen for a reason and people are put in your life for a reason.  Is being the next Bachelor an answer to a reason?

With 1 f Jef, we lose all reason and sanity when he's around...........nothing matters when it comes to 1 f Jef................He can walk backwards, talk pig latin, wear a polka dotted shirt with striped pants, and we'd still think he was the coolest person.  That's the power he has to make us lose control.

It's Bachelor Monday...............I'm ready, so ready.......for some Dimples, Drew, Des, and drama.......I'm ready to get lost in the depths of some mighty fine dimples that grace the face of one Brooks Forrester.

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I'm going to get lost on a beach this week with my camera, sunscreen, and the company of my oldest, and dearest friend I've known since I was 9 years old.......I'm headed back to California..........

THE BEACH FIXES EVERYTHING

 when you

LIVE IN THE SUNSHINE

SWIM THE SEA

DRINK THE WILD AIR.......

Thank you from the bottom of my heart in supporting the subject matter of this blog.  He's worth writing about and sticking up for.   I enjoy my silly conversations I have with many of you in regards to 1 f Jef.  He has made me laugh more than he will ever know.   I'm sure he would turn several shades of red if he only knew what really is said in these conversations.  Thank you all for reading the blog of a silly, somewhat demented inner child...............

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